Navigating Co-Parenting Challenges
Jay Cutler, the former NFL quarterback, recently shared insights into his co-parenting relationship with ex-wife Kristin Cavallari. In an interview at the Tennessee Rock 'N Jock celebrity softball game on June 2, Cutler spoke about how their three children—Camden Jack, Jaxon Wyatt, and Saylor James—play a pivotal role in maintaining their dynamic. 'The kids kind of do it. We've got our schedule and it works for us,' he noted, highlighting the importance of a structured routine in managing their responsibilities.
This candid reflection comes after a tumultuous period following their divorce, finalized in June 2022 after a split in 2020. Cavallari has previously been vocal about the difficulties of co-parenting with Cutler, describing it as 'really hard' and a 'bumpy road' during an episode of Bunnie XO's Dumb Blonde podcast in December 2024. Despite these challenges, Cutler emphasized a commitment to prioritizing their children's needs over personal differences.
A History of Ups and Downs
The relationship between Cutler and Cavallari has seen its share of public scrutiny since their marriage from 2013 to 2020. Cavallari has openly discussed the lack of consistency in their co-parenting arrangement, stating on her podcast Let's Be Honest in October 2024 that it 'has not been easy, to say the least.' Yet, there have been moments of progress, such as when they sat together at a basketball game earlier this year, an event Cavallari described as 'the best thing ever,' though she humorously added they haven't repeated it since.
Cutler's perspective aligns with his earlier comments in a 2021 interview with E! News, where he stressed resilience in parenting amidst challenges like the COVID-19 pandemic. 'Kids are resilient. With school and all the activities, we've done a good job of putting them first,' he said at the time. This focus on their children's well-being remains a consistent theme in his approach to co-parenting.
Looking Ahead with New Beginnings
As Cutler navigates this chapter of co-parenting, he is also preparing for a new personal milestone—his upcoming wedding to fiancée Samantha Robertson, to whom he proposed in November 2024. While details of the wedding remain private, this development adds another layer to his evolving family dynamic. Meanwhile, Cavallari continues to build her brand, recently celebrating a launch for Uncommon James in Nashville, Tennessee.
Both Cutler and Cavallari appear committed to making co-parenting work despite past tensions. Cutler's latest comments suggest a pragmatic approach, crediting their children for helping them coexist. As they move forward, their shared focus on family underscores an ongoing effort to balance personal growth with parental responsibilities.